17

We all know that age plays a big part in one's perspective. As we grow older and experience more of life, we gain more knowledge and wisdom, and our views of the world can take a 180. Sometimes we even become more cynical. But I think in our rush to dismiss the naive views of younger people, we miss out (and forget) some of the wisdom that comes from seeing the world so simply. I read this advice from a 17 year old recently that reminded me of some simple principles in life that tend to get lost in the rush of daily life:

"There are a few things I've come to realize this year. One - don't hold on to things too tight. Hold on tight enough and long enough to enjoy them, but know that you'll eventually have to let go. Don't hold too tight, because change has to happen. And change is okay - even good. Without change we would never grow, never get to become the people we want to be. 

Two - enjoy the little things. 'Make the good stuff count for more than the bad stuff.' Remember the little things that make you happy, like reading a book in the afternoon while eating chocolate and wearing fuzzy slippers. They make life more fun.

Don't brood over past mistakes and live in guilt - learn from them. If you learn from them, you're less likely to have to go through a situation twice. 

Take time to daydream. It's just a whole lot of fun. 

Work hard at everything you do. Whether it's at school, in sports, on the job, in ministry, do it to the best of your ability. You feel so much better knowing you worked your hardest to accomplish something, and it gives you something to be proud of. 

Find your comfort zone, then go out of it. Stretch yourself. You usually find something new you like to do or are good at. And it's fun to scream and holler and make a fool of yourself at a soccer game. 

Remember those who have helped you get to where you are. Thank them and love on them. Appreciate your friends, because you never know when they might be gone. And love your family. (Yes, even when they are monstrously irritating.) They love you no matter what, and they're the only one you've got."